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Sex during menses
I have a querry from you. Kindly guide in the matter. Can
we do sex during menstrual periods?
Can we do sex 7 days a week? Doing sex everyday is
normal or abnormal ? Kindly help me.
Yes, you can do sex every day if you and your husband have the
desire and energy for it; Make sure that none of you feel coerced
or forced into having sex more often than either of you would
like.
The same holds for sex during menstruation. Some women are reported
to experience sexual desire and enjoy sex during their periods
(obviously some dont!). If the husband is not turned off by the
idea, then there should be no problem at all. However, it is always
a good idea to watch yourself for a healthy (as opposed to dark,
fowl smelling) menstrual flows, and seek prompt medical check-up
in case of suspicion. This suggestion holds good even if you dont
indulge in sex during menstruation.
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Pregnant and confused about the paternity
If I had multiple (3) in a months span and became pregnant,
could you maybe help me try and figure out who would most likely
be the dad? My LMP was 23 May 2001 and my periods are always every
28 days. I had unprotected sex on the 3rd of June and the individual
did cum inside me several times on that date. My next 2 partners
followed on the 8th and 9th of June, but both individuals pulled
out early and masturbated to finish the jobs themselves (so it
wasnt real close or anything). As far as looking into the calendars
provided online, they say that I probably ovulated on the 6th
of June. I dont understand how I could have conceived if I didnt
have sex on the 6th of June? Possibly the sperm from my partner
on the 3rd lived until the 6th? Or possibly I didnt ovulate until
the 8th or 9th? Please try and give me your what your best guess
would be. Thanks!!
If you are sure that the 2nd and 3rd partners have not ejaculated
inside, on or near you vagina, you can be certain that the pregnancy
has resulted from the spermatozoa of the 1st partner. Your first
guess is right - the spermatozoa are capable of living inside
a womans cervix (neck of the womb) for upto 6-7 days after deposition,
and are capable of fertilizing the egg.
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Vaginal odor
My grilfriend and I have slept together for the first time
and I noticed she has a very strong vaginal odor. I have never
experienced such a strong odor with past girlfriends. How should
I / should I aproach her ? with the subject , and what can be
done to help with the situation?
Yes, we feel, you should take up this matter with your girl friend
in a gentle manner and encourage her to seek medical help. Though
women vary in their vaginal odours, strong & offensive odour is
often associated with an infection. A simple drug regimen of a
few days will clear the problem. Certain food substances such
as garlic consumed in substantial quantity are known to make the
vaginal odour stronger.
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Period in the presence of pregnancy
Okay on Oct.3 my b-friend and I had unprotected sex. I went
to the doctor today (Oct.19) to see if I was pregnat and my test
came in negative. Now on Oct.16th we had unprotected sex again
one day before my period. Then again on Oct.18th while my period
was on. Is it any way possible that I can be pregnant even if
my period still came on the next day?
No. Highly unlikely. Top
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Semen buildup
If a guy masterbates and holds back ejaculation for 2 hours,
will the build up of semen left behind from the first ejaculation,
be enough quantity for a 2nd ejaculation of equal proportion?
Or, does it all come out in the first ejaculation? My husband
masterbated to some porn for two hours and after he ejaculated
he masterbated again, 1/2 hour later. Something he never does
with me. He claims its the 2 hour build up of semen that caused
his unusual arousal, not the material he watched. Is it true then
that, after his first ejaculation there would still be enough
unreleased semen built up inside to create that arousal?
No. The build up of semen does not cause any arousal. Sexual
arousal comes from psychological and physical stimulation of the
mind and body and can occur whether or not a man has any semen
to ejaculate. In your husbands case, watching the porn is the
most likely cause for his being able to masturbate within half-an-hour
of the previous ejaculation. Top
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Spotting in pregnancy
Just a quick question. I've had unprotected sex about ten
times in the last two months with my girlfriend. She got her period
the other day but my girlfriend said that a woman can still get
her period even if she is pregnant, is this true? Please respond,
i'd really appreciate it. Thank you.
Some women do find some bleeding around the day their menstruation
is due, despite pregnancy. This happens usually during first 1-3
months after conception. However the amount and duration of bleeding
is usually much less compared to normal periods. Any element of
doubt should be clarified through a reliable pregnancy test.
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Pregnancy from sex in periods
i was wondering is it possible that you can get pregnant on
the first day you get your periods? because the first time i had
sex with my new boyfriend the condom broke so he went to the bathroom
and came back and told me that i had been bleeding...the i realised
i had just got my periods....and im very worried... and im 3 days
late.. please help me!
You are not likely to become pregnant if you had sex on the first
day of menstruation.
Pl. read our answer for a similar question.
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Pulling out is no good
i'm 18 and recently, 5 days before my period is supposed to
begin, my fiance and i were having sex. he ejaculated in me, it
was his first time. but now i'm scared i could be pregnant, it
is now 2 days before my period is suposed to begin, but no sign
of it. i've had cramps for about a week, this never happens before
my period. i normally don't cramp until i start. we have a very
active sex life and don't always use protection, but he normally
pulls out. so are my chances of being pregnant really big? should
i get tested now or wait a few days and see if i start? thanks!
Since you had unprotected sex 5 days before your periods are
due - and since your menstrual cycle is regular and predictable
- it is less likely that you become pregnant from this sexual
encounter. About a week days before the due date are 'safe'.
Abot the other point you mentioned - "he normally pulls
out" - this is not totally safe, because his precoital secretions
(pre-cum) may contain a few sperms; secondly, occasionally he
may ejaculate even before he could fully withdraw the penis. It's
much better if you could use Today vaginal suppositories (tablet-like
things), every time you participate in intercourse. You have to
insert one tablet deep into your vagina, for every act of coitus.
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Bleeding within condom
A friend of mine called me and was pretty scared. He had just
had sex with his girlfriend, and instead of the condom being filled
with cum, it was blood red, and looked like blood. I obviously
know thats not normal. If u could please email me back with a
possible answer, it would greatly be appreciated.
He needs immediate urological investigation to rule out tearing
of foreskin, frenulum, or urinary tract trauma and the like. All
can be treated without difficulty. Ask him to see a Urologist. Top
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Ejaculating too fast
I want to know if I ejaculate fast in the first session of
intercourse, is it a problem? is it normal, or am I doing something
wrong?
It is very common for young persons - to ejaculate fast in the
first session of intercourse. The second attempt, when possible,
takes a little longer and third even more. As your sexual experience
increases and with some conscious effort to control, this fast
ejaculation (technically known as early orgasm) can be prevented.
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Permanent removal of pubic hair
My boyfriend wants me to shave my pubic hair completely. how
would i go about doing this without getting annoying stubble and
irritation?
There are only a limited number of do-it-yourself ways to remove
pubic hair for a long time. Nothing is permanent - stubbles grow
in a few days. Depilatory creams and/or lotions, when applied
to the hairy area dissolve the hair just below the skin surface
and remove the hairs. They grow back in 7-10 days. Since the cream/lotion
cause skin irritation for a few women, follow the package instruction
carefully. Waxing is another technique.
Electrolysis can be used for permanent hair removal but it is
costly in time and money and is painful. Seek this service from
only qualified personnel.
Laser beam application is now becoming popular and is a painless
procedure for permanent removal of unwanted hairs. It needs 2-4
sittings across a span of 2-3 months. Consult at such a facility
in your locality.
Since sexual preferences may change during one's (or partner's)
life-span, I would like you to think twice about permanent removal
of hair. Top
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