It is possible that the stimulation you’ve been giving him is
not sufficient, nor the right kind to bring him to orgasm; or simply
he is not comfortable with the whole procedure, or surroundings; is
anxious; or has been on some prescription drugs that can affect the
sexual response. Usually the circumstances.
Some men are not comfortable
when their women partners take the lead role. Some are anxious type;
For some, the circumstances cause anxiety. Some have intrapsychic
conflicts.
These and such other factors are possible causes for a
man’s inability to reach climax during sexual stimulation. Exactly
what applies to your boy friend cannot be determined without an interview
with him.
Ascertain whether he had reached orgasms earlier either
through masturbation or partner sex. If he had any, then you need
not be apprehensive. Allow him some more time and participate in an
anxiety-free circumstances (letting him choose the time, place, method
and pace. If you were taking the initiative in sex earlier, let me
him start it now & vice versa. |